Your Questions Answered
Everything you need to know about Temple Tribe, our events, and the path to membership.
Temple Tribe is a fully vetted, members-only community for people committed to conscious sexuality, spiritual evolution, and embodied connection. We're a sober, sex-positive sanctuary where your boundaries are sacred, your desires are celebrated, and you are held without having to shrink or explain yourself.
Start by attending a White-level event like Connection Games, Taste of Tantra, or Tantra Date Night. These are open to the public and give you a taste of our community and facilitation style. You can also jump straight into Pink events if you feel called. Once we get to know each other, we'll decide together if membership is a good fit for both of us.
It depends on the event. Tantra Date Night is designed for couples. Other events like Taste of Tantra, Dancing in the Dark, and Sacred Snuggle Lab welcome both singles and couples. Check the specific event description on Eventbrite.
For White and Pink events, wear comfortable clothing you can move in. Many people choose flowy, soft fabrics. For Red events (members only), we often have specific dress codes or themes announced in advance.
White events are clothed, platonic gatherings open to all who are curious. They introduce consent culture, sacred touch, and embodiment basics.
Pink events are for those ready to go deeper. These sensual gatherings may allow for partial nudity, and intimacy intensifies through intentional touch and vulnerable connection.
Red events are members-only and explore the full spectrum of conscious sexuality and embodied pleasure. These include adult sex education, Sacred Puja, Temple Nights, Naked Spa Nights, Tantric Massage Parties, and more—all held within a container of absolute trust.
Yes, 100%. All Temple Tribe events are completely sober. No alcohol, no recreational substances. We want everyone making clear, conscious, fully present choices.
Every event includes an Opening Circle (mandatory), the main experience (which varies by event type), and a Closing Circle (strongly encouraged for integration). Facilitators guide the container, and Love Angels provide support throughout.
No. You may attend any open ticketed non-member event in any order you wish. We offer the stepping stones of White to Pink as a suggestion for those who want to ease in gradually, but if you feel called to jump straight into a Pink event, you're welcome to do so.
Red events are primarily for members only. However, non-members can sometimes attend at a higher ticket price ($150+) or as a vetted guest of a current member, subject to facilitator approval.
While we do not force active members to continue attending open events, we heavily suggest they do. White and Pink events are how we grow, build, and vet our community together. Members who show up help hold the container, welcome newcomers, and embody the culture we're creating.
We honor those who have walked this path before us. If you come from similar communities and carry that experience with you, you are already speaking our language. Reach out to us directly at [email protected] — we may have a fast track for you. Either way, you are welcome here.
Not at all. Membership is about belonging to this community and having unlimited access to the events that call to you — whether that's White, Pink, or Red. Many of our members are here purely for the connection, the conscious container, and the community itself. You get to decide how deep you go. Always.
Membership is by mutual selection — chosen by you, and by us. The path begins by showing up. Not to prove yourself, but so we can find each other.
• Attend at least 2 White-level events
• Attend at least 1 Pink-level event
• Complete the application
• Be vouched for by community members
• Be approved through our vetting process
Membership is earned through presence, not purchased. Whether you're brand new or have years of practice, the path starts the same way: by showing up.
Unlimited access to all White and Pink events, monthly Temple Night (red event), quarterly Dungeon Theme Parties, private online community, priority enrollment for retreats, and the ability to nominate new members after 3 months. Total value: $275+/month for $108/month, locked in for life.
We're limiting the Founding Member rate of $108/month to the first 50 people who commit to building this community with us from the ground up. These founding members will help establish the culture, hold the container, and shape what Temple Tribe becomes as we grow. Once these 50 spots are filled, the founding rate closes forever and membership opens at the standard rate as we continue to expand.
We understand life happens. Members can pause for up to 3 months per year while maintaining their founding rate. Cancellation requires an email record sent to [email protected] and will be handled case-by-case with care and respect for your journey.
Through our Sacred Container Code of Conduct, mandatory consent training, trained facilitators and Love Angels, a vetting process for members, clear consequences for violations, and an independent Accountability Pod for conflicts with facilitators.
Speak directly to the person if you feel safe doing so, bring it to a facilitator immediately, or contact a Love Angel. We take all concerns seriously and will address them with care and urgency.
What happens in circle stays in circle. You may share your own experience, but you do not share other people's stories, names, or identifying details. This is non-negotiable.
No. Phones and recording devices are not allowed in event spaces unless prior written agreement is given by facilitators. This protects everyone's privacy and keeps us fully present.
Currently we host events across Orange County, Long Beach, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, Santa Barbara, Ventura, Phoenix, and San Francisco—and we're growing! Specific venues are shared upon registration.
Yes! First, apply to become a Temple Tribe member. Once accepted, you may apply to volunteer. We need more help than we ever let on and can always find ways to put you to work! Love Angels provide emotional support during events, while Temple Team handles setup and teardown. Volunteers often receive discounted or complimentary entry.
Email us at [email protected] or reach out through our contact page. We're here to support your journey.